Getting pulled over can quickly escalate into a high-stakes situation, even if you've done nothing wrong. Your words and actions in these moments matter more than you might think.
Be Cool, Stay Polite
Keep Hands Visible
Place your hands on the steering wheel where the officer can see them. This reduces tension and shows cooperation from the start.
Follow Instructions
Comply with all physical directions immediately, even if you disagree with being stopped. This isn't the time to debate.
Remain Respectful
A polite demeanor goes a long way. No eye-rolling, sighing, or attitude - these can escalate a routine stop into something worse.
Don't Confess to Anything
How to respond to "Do you know how fast you were going?"
"I believe I was going the speed limit. How fast do you think I was going?" This response is friendly, calm, and admits nothing.
What to say if asked about drinking or partying
"I'm not discussing my day." This isn't rude—it's protecting your future self from potential legal consequences.
Handling questions about where you're coming from
Keep answers vague and brief. Specific locations can sometimes be used against you, especially late at night.
Draw the Line Politely
Initial Questions
Answer basic identification questions calmly and provide requested documents.
Extended Questioning
If questions continue beyond the reason for stopping you, it's time to politely establish boundaries.
The Magic Question
"Am I being detained, or am I free to go?" This clarifies your situation without being confrontational.
If You Are Being Detained
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Request Attorney
Calmly state: "I would like to speak with my attorney" - then say absolutely nothing else.
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Further Comments
This is the number of additional things you should say after requesting an attorney - not even small talk.
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Compliance
Continue following all physical commands while maintaining your right to remain silent.
Silence Really Is Golden
Save It For Court
The roadside is for compliance, the courtroom is for arguments
Protect Your Future
What you don't say can't be used against you later
Stay Respectful
Even if you believe you're being treated unfairly
You can't talk your way out of a ticket, but you can talk your way into bigger problems. A calm, polite driver who knows when to remain silent is protecting their rights the smart way.